What are other’s seeing through my windows? What are others seeing in me? Is my transparency an attraction? Am I being authentic? Are my actions and words congruent? Do others feel valued by me? Do others know they are appreciated? Regardless if I’ve been with someone for 3 seconds or 3 hours, do they know they are accepted and appreciated for who they are?
No matter what we’re doing on the outside, people respond primarily to how we’re feeling about them on the inside. People sense how others are feeling towards them. In spite of our words and actions, our true feelings about people are communicated through our very being.
How do you value others? Do you see them as objects or people? What are you communicating with your words? Your actions? What are others seeing through your window?